1st of all,I'm so sorry haven't posted for so long but I'm having lots to do since the end of the year is getting closer.
This post is dedicated to the dearest French kid , Ream
In life you go through a lot of obstacles, heart breaks, traumas, devastation and so on..
If you're reading this you have hopefully survived up until this point in life.
The different phases of life and problems destroy us humans emotionally, and well sometimes due to the differently thinking minds out there ,,physically and mentally.
AND HERE YOU ARE, YOU ARE AWESOME!!:)
The most important things in life are countless because they differ. The most common things is "friends". Yes! Friends.
A Friendship is easy to make and easier to ruin and destroy!! My opinion may help you but it won't if you don't take a minute to review all of the things you did in any friendship you lost just because of a silly reason.
Everything I tell you about and advise you for, I've been through them all.
How it all starts..
With a smile, note, wink, laugh, joke, or embarrassing moments sometimes!! It's just so simple and to start a friendship you just need those baby steps like starting a convo, or saying hi or bye.
What takes to keep it...
HONESTY and LOYALTY.
Treat people the way you want to be treated, but watch your actions and words.
Don't lie, even though you're not a liar, it takes the simplest lie or two to lose the best thing that've happened to you.
Lies are easy to make up, and create but are easier to forget. You might become friends with the most professional detector on earth so be careful. Cus this kind of friends are as smart As Einstein and they don't miss anything.
I admit that I lied to my friend but my point was only to show her that ya we have many things in common but Oh No it's the worst thing I've ever did. The lie was pointless and very unnecessary, I told her I watched the hunger games when I only watched the trailer.
Now I'm not saying that we're all liars, it's just that people try their best to prove you wrong and themselves are always right in some cases, or they just misunderstand you. But I say they lose their trust in you and give you 2nd chances but you lose them without being aware of it.
In the end you know what you're doing and if ur mistaken or not. If people hate you for things you didn't expect them to hate you for... Apologize before its too late.
You know the song aplologize for one republic. :P
"It's too late to apologize,,,it's too late
I said its too late to apologize,, it's too late ."
If they didn't accept it, you will find that it's necessary to let to; simply for the reason that they are heavy..
Show them that you don't have time to worry about your haters cus you're too busy loving the ones who love you.
But crying yourself to sleep isn't worth it, it's a wound that'll close over time burin other cases where you feel like you've lost Some friends that are irreplaceable just like the 2 of them it's fair enough to lose sleep thinking about how to keep them , and fix what you've done.
Many people are irreplaceable in my life but it only takes a situation to prove whether you're worth it or not.
P.S... I love you R& U , the blessing I've never expected, EVER. Without you my days would be boring
As hell yawww B-)
Next post soon hopefully love y'all
This post is dedicated to the dearest French kid , Ream
In life you go through a lot of obstacles, heart breaks, traumas, devastation and so on..
If you're reading this you have hopefully survived up until this point in life.
The different phases of life and problems destroy us humans emotionally, and well sometimes due to the differently thinking minds out there ,,physically and mentally.
AND HERE YOU ARE, YOU ARE AWESOME!!:)
The most important things in life are countless because they differ. The most common things is "friends". Yes! Friends.
A Friendship is easy to make and easier to ruin and destroy!! My opinion may help you but it won't if you don't take a minute to review all of the things you did in any friendship you lost just because of a silly reason.
Everything I tell you about and advise you for, I've been through them all.
How it all starts..
With a smile, note, wink, laugh, joke, or embarrassing moments sometimes!! It's just so simple and to start a friendship you just need those baby steps like starting a convo, or saying hi or bye.
What takes to keep it...
HONESTY and LOYALTY.
Treat people the way you want to be treated, but watch your actions and words.
Don't lie, even though you're not a liar, it takes the simplest lie or two to lose the best thing that've happened to you.
Lies are easy to make up, and create but are easier to forget. You might become friends with the most professional detector on earth so be careful. Cus this kind of friends are as smart As Einstein and they don't miss anything.
I admit that I lied to my friend but my point was only to show her that ya we have many things in common but Oh No it's the worst thing I've ever did. The lie was pointless and very unnecessary, I told her I watched the hunger games when I only watched the trailer.
Now I'm not saying that we're all liars, it's just that people try their best to prove you wrong and themselves are always right in some cases, or they just misunderstand you. But I say they lose their trust in you and give you 2nd chances but you lose them without being aware of it.
In the end you know what you're doing and if ur mistaken or not. If people hate you for things you didn't expect them to hate you for... Apologize before its too late.
You know the song aplologize for one republic. :P
"It's too late to apologize,,,it's too late
I said its too late to apologize,, it's too late ."
If they didn't accept it, you will find that it's necessary to let to; simply for the reason that they are heavy..
Show them that you don't have time to worry about your haters cus you're too busy loving the ones who love you.
But crying yourself to sleep isn't worth it, it's a wound that'll close over time burin other cases where you feel like you've lost Some friends that are irreplaceable just like the 2 of them it's fair enough to lose sleep thinking about how to keep them , and fix what you've done.
Many people are irreplaceable in my life but it only takes a situation to prove whether you're worth it or not.
P.S... I love you R& U , the blessing I've never expected, EVER. Without you my days would be boring
As hell yawww B-)
Next post soon hopefully love y'all
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